Letting go of someone who used to be our “world” is not as easy as it sounds. Breakup sucks when you still in love with your ex. And moving on from it is the hardest thing to do. Especially the part when your ex left you hanging there feeling unsure that either you should move forward and find someone new or you have to wait and hold on to your past.
Nevertheless, the most crucial thing for you is you need to find out if the breakup is permanent or is it the other way around? This will help you to decide what to do next. And below are 6 Signs Of How To Know If A Breakup Is Permanent.
You don’t keep in touch during the breakup
This is one of the very obvious sign that your break up is permanent.
Sometimes, though that we have decided to end our relationship with our significant other, we still keep in touch with that person. Although it’s not as romantic as it used to.
Even when you’re relationship is currently in break if your ex still cares about you he will trying to call and to contact you to make sure that you’re alright.
He will still give you response and reply to your text or dm even if it’s just a short reply like “okay” or “nice”. But at least he gives you response and still showing his interest in communicating with you.
At this point, the chance that both of you could possibly be getting back together still exists. There’s still a remnant of your relationship.
But, if he is been ignoring you for, let’s say, three weeks or even a month you need to remember that it could be the sign of a permanent break up. At first, you will think that he/she may need a space until you realize that your ex doesn’t want to be with you anymore.
He’s avoiding you
You have been in a relationship with your partner long enough to make you memorize his/her daily habitual. You know exactly his/her favorite restaurant, which path will he go through, which places he will visit every weekend.
One day, perhaps you accidentally meet him/her mall that he used to go, but on the other day, he’s nowhere to be found. Until you know that the woman goes to the mall, salon, and other hangouts just to avoid you.
All your stuff are returned
Returning your ex’s stuff after a breakup is hard, especially if you still love the person. Because it feels like you let the person go for good. That’s the main reason as to why you need to understand that if your ex gives you the stuff you gave him, it could be a sign that he’s already letting you go.
He’s un-followed you
In this era, you can tell whether or not your ex is slowly forgetting you by social media. This way you will find out that he’s over you now. But that’s fine don’t feel bad about it.
Perhaps it’s because he doesn’t want further communication with you, this is how some people simply move on. Try to let it go. Do the same and move forward.
He doesn’t even try to get you back
There is one obvious sign if you’re not going through a permanent breakup, that is if your ex doesn’t even try to get you back to his arms.
If he wants you two to be together again he will show it clearly by making everything feels pretty easy to notice. He will keep in touch with you during the break as if you two are still together and will never avoiding you ever. You don’t even have to wonder about it.
He’s seeing someone else
The clearest sign when your ex will never want to be back with you again is when he has a new girlfriend. If he still has feelings for you and intent to return, surely he will not let anyone “go” into his heart. However, if he already has a boyfriend again, it means he did not want to get stuck with the past.
You don’t need to feel desperate over these signs. Instead, you should take this time to prepare yourself for your own new and amazing relationship.