Men aren’t exactly the romantic kind and if you find it difficult to be romantic with your girlfriend, don’t feel bad because you’re not the only one. If you’re wondering how to be romantic to your girlfriend, we have some tried and tested tips and suggestions for you. Here’s everything you need to know:
Giving Her A Sweet Surprise Will Definitely Work
Every woman loves to be surprised with something sweet and wonderful. This doesn’t necessarily mean that you need to go and buy her an expensive gift. Showing up to pick her up from work unexpectedly, sending out a bouquet of flowers even when there isn’t any occasion, cooking her a dinner that she wasn’t expecting you to cook and other such sweet surprises can truly up the romantic quotient in your relationship.
Play With Her Hair When Relaxing Together
When you and your girlfriend are just relaxing in bed or watching television at home, fondly fiddle with her hair a little bit. Almost every woman loves it when a man plays with her hair and in a loving and caressing manner. Playing with your girlfriend’s hair is a very romantic and sweet gesture.
Give Her Your Undivided Attention
There is nothing more romantic and flattering than giving a woman your undivided attention. We live in a world that’s constantly buzzing and vibrating thanks to our mobile phones and other gadgets. Most couples are busy having a relationship with their phones instead of being totally present in the now when spending time with their partners. Amidst of all the technological distractions, being able to give your woman your undivided attention can be an extremely romantic gesture.
Bring Her Things She Loves
By bringing her thing she loves we don’t mean things that are quintessentially romantic, but things that she actually loves. It can be her favorite chocolate, a bag of chips that she loves to munch on while watching television at the end of a chaotic day, a pint of her favorite ice cream and other such things. It may not be a big romantic and expensive thing but your gesture in itself will be a heartwarmingly romantic one.
Take Sick Leave From Work And Spend All Day With Her
Nobody is indispensable and if both of you choose to take a day off from work and spend it watching movies, binging on your favorite foods and just hanging out with each other, it can be a very romantic and sweet gesture. Forgetting all your responsibilities for a day and just spending quality time with your partner can prove to be refreshingly romantic.
Send Her A Love Letter
In today’s times of text messages, chat messengers and emails, we have forgotten the lost art of letter writing. Write your girlfriend a romantic and beautiful letter to let her know how much you care for her and love her. Nothing is more romantic than receiving a handwritten love note in these times of digital communication. If you’re no Shakespeare when it comes to writing and expressing your feelings, just pull out poems from books of romantic poets and add them to your letter with a few words from your end.
Book A Spa Day For Her
Every woman loves to take a day off for a spa and just to rejuvenate. If she has had a tough week, book a spa day for her over the weekend and let her unwind and get relaxed while she gets rejuvenating massages and beauty treatment. Fixing up an appointment for her will not only lift her spirits but also proves to be a very romantic and sweet gesture from your end. This gesture shows to her how much you care about her wellbeing.
Delivery Services For Her Favorite Drink
Bringing your girlfriend her favorite beverage can be an extremely romantic gesture. Surprise her with her favorite coffee or tea or smoothie by getting it to her when she’s at work or at the gym or when you’re going home from the gym. Delivering her favorite drink to her when she least expects it and probably needs it can be one of the sweetest and most romantic things you can do for her.
Make Something For Her With Your Own Hands
It doesn’t necessarily need to be extravagant or showy, you can make her something simple too. If you have carpentry skills make her a piece of furniture for her home, if she enjoys music make her a mixed CD with her favorite tracks, make a beautiful scrapbook of photos of the both of you and so on. Giving her something handmade will really be a refreshingly romantic gesture.
Send Her Sweet Romantic Texts When She Least Expects It
Sending her sweet and romantic texts when she least expects it can win your brownie points. Send out a “You’re gorgeous” text out of the blue and in the middle of a manic Monday. Send her an “I love you” text when she’s having a bad day and so on. These subtle and unexpected reminders of love from your end can prove to be extremely romantic gestures.
Besides these above-mentioned tips and points, there are tons of other things that you can do to be romantic with your girlfriend. While the option of extravagant and expansive gifts and dinner is always there, sometimes women prefer the little things when it comes to romanticism. The tips that we have given are tried and tested and have brought smiles to the faces of many women. Your woman will be pleasantly surprised and even touched with your romantic gestures. So get to it now and let that lovely lady know how much you love her. Make her day special with one of these loving and romantic gestures.