Men can be quite comical. When it comes to chasing a woman, they will put their heart and soul into it until they have her, once they have her; the chase goes flying out the window. If you’re wondering how to make him chase you again, we have all the tricks and tips you need. Here’s what you need to do:
Stop Chasing Him
It’s human nature to chase something that we can’t have or run behind someone who we aren’t getting enough attention from. If you’re chasing him all the time, you aren’t giving him the opportunity to chase you. If you repeatedly try to talk to him about the lack of attention he is giving you, he is only going to pull further away from you. The best thing to do to give him that much needed reality check is to stop chasing him. Don’t call him, don’t repeatedly text him and most importantly maintain some space and distance from him. When he suddenly finds that gaping hole in his life, he will come running back to you.
Get Your Life Back On Track
If you have all the time in the world to chase him, it’s obvious that you have put your entire life on hold for him. The first thing you need to do is get your life back on track. Start going out with your friends again, indulge in the hobbies that you once loved and keep yourself busy in any and every way that you can. When you have less time to nag him and chase him, he will automatically feel that emptiness and begin chasing you again.
Give Him Space And Take Some Space Yourself
When you’re living with a man, there are very few opportunities where you can get away physically from the person. However, you need to make sure that you somehow get some physical distance so that both of you can get that much needed space from each other. Plan a short trip with your girl gang, go out for movies with your friends, stay with a friend for a few days and so on. Giving the relationship that physical, mental and emotional space will give him a reality check and keep him on his toes.
Let Him Be His True Self
The biggest problem in most relationships is that the woman thinks that the man will change and the man thinks that the woman won’t. If you’re getting into the relationship with the intention of changing him, it’s only going to end in disaster. If you want him to chase you, you need to let him be his true self. If he enjoys going to the gym, let him go. If he enjoys a round of golf with his buddies on the weekend let him play. When you stop trying to change him all the time, he will automatically appreciate you more and will chase you like he did in the beginning of the relationship.
Keep A Little Bit Of Mystery Alive
Men love mystery in a woman. It gives them something to run after and find out. The more mysterious you remain, the more they will chase you. Don’t be an open book with your boyfriend or partner. Leave some things to his imagination. Doing this will intrigue him and make him chase you a lot more.
Dress Well, Stay In Shape, Feel Good
When you have been in a relationship with a guy for a long time, you don’t take the efforts you once did to look your best. You need to get yourself together, get back into shape, start dressing really well and all in all look utterly fabulous. When the guy sees that you’re looking amazing, it will make him jittery because he may feel like he is losing you. This will automatically start making him chase you all over again. So get your best dresses out and keep him at the edge of the cliff.
Stop Turning Everything Into A Fight
When you feel like you’re not getting enough attention from your man, you will end up getting frustrated and snapping for the littlest of things. If you’re turning everything he says and does into a fight, you need to stop doing that now. No man likes to be constantly yelled at and fought with. You need to keep your calm and stop reacting to the things that irritate you. When he sees this he will begin to wonder what’s gotten into you and will automatically start chasing you again.
Make Him Aware Of Competition
Men are extremely competitive and when they see competition they automatically get their act together. You need to let your man know that he may just have competition from fair suitors. Once he sees that there are other men interested in you, he will get nervous and uncomfortable and make sure that he does everything in his power to make you feel loved. Hiding potential competitors from him will make him so secure in the relationship that he won’t bother to chase you or give you much attention.
There you have it. All these tips and suggestions are tried and tested. Within days of incorporating these suggestions you will notice visible changes in your man’s attitude towards you and he will automatically start chasing you again. Don’t feel low and depressed just because your man isn’t chasing you anymore! It’s not your fault that he isn’t chasing you bit the fact that you didn’t have these awesome tips and suggestions on how to get your relationship back on track and how to handle your man. Stop typing that nagging text you were about to send him and just keep yourself busy with other things.