Every woman at some point of time in her life has wondered whether or not a particular guy is into her. While there is no exact science to gauge the situation, there are certain common traits and behaviors that a guy may exhibit indicating interest. Don’t get all confused with the mixed signals that a guy sends out because you may just end up making an utter fool of yourself. Here are the signs a guy is into you.
He Is Proactive When It Comes To Calling And Texting
Guys are hardwired very differently from women. You won’t often find a guy calling you to gossip about the neighbour’s affair or discuss the latest fashion trends. If a guy is going out of his way to call you and message you on a daily and regular basis, chances are that he is totally into you.
He Remembers Important Occasions
Let’s face it, most guys don’t remember birthdays and anniversaries and other important occasions. If you have a male friend who remembers your birthday and goes out of his way to make it special, there are very high chances that he really likes you.
He Is Always Available When You Need Him
Whether it’s a midnight emergency, or you just need a shoulder to cry on, if a guy makes himself available for you at the drop of a hat, it could indicate that he genuinely cares about you and is interested in you romantically.
Makes Plans With You
If a guy is constantly making plans for dinners and movies and other social events with you, he definitely is into you. If he leaps that extra mile just so that he can get to spend some quality time with you, this guy really likes you. It’s a very rare occurrence that a man will give up time with his boys just to be with a woman. So, if you find him taking a rain check on a night out with the boys, it’s pretty clear that he is into you.
He Listens And Remembers
Guys can be pretty scatterbrained. Most often they forget the little things and conversations that they have with people. However, if a guy is seriously into you, he will remember every little thing about you. From your favorite color to a scene that you love from your favorite movie, all this information gets stored in the guy’s mind and he brings it up when need be.
He Talks Openly About His Future Plans And Goals
A guy will only bring up his future plans and goals in front of a woman if he is really into her and wants her to be a part of his future too. If you find that guy talks to you openly about his dreams and business and family and future plans, there are very bright chances of him being totally mesmerized by you.
He Will Go Out Of His Way To Do Little Things For You
If you find that a guy goes out of his way to do little things for you, it is probably because he likes you. For instance, if you’re gluten intolerant and the guy picks up gluten-free products from the supermarket to stock up in his kitchen just for you, even a blind man would see his interest in you.
He Introduces You To His Friends And Family
A guy who is seriously into you will want to take that step forward and introduce you to his family and close friends. He will want to involve you in his social life, take you along with him to functions and so on.
He Will Want Your Opinion On Important Decisions In His Life
Whether it’s about switching jobs, or it’s about buying that new car, a guy who is seriously into you will want your opinion on every big and small occurrence in his life. If he goes out of his way to call you and meet you to hear your point of view on his life event, he is seriously into you and really likes you.
He Gets Jealous When You Give Your Attention To Another Man
If you find the guy getting distant and uncomfortable when you’re giving your attention and time to another man, it’s only because he seriously likes you and is afraid that you may get swept away by what he sees as competition.
He Involves Himself With Your Friends And Family
A guy who takes interest in interacting and mingling with your friends and family is definitely interested in you. Most guys are too impatient to take the time and effort to involve themselves in the personal life of another. However, if you find that this guy remembers to send flowers on your mother’s birthday and shows up at your best friends anniversary party, not only is he into you, but he is also a keeper.
Showing Interest In The Things That Interest You
It doesn’t matter if it’s something silly, or it’s something very important, if a guy shows even fake interest in the things that interest you, he is only trying to impress you because he is totally into you. So if you find him watching romantic comedies that he usually hates or you are able to make him go shopping with, then he definitely likes you.
These basic signs and traits are what most guys display when they are seriously into a woman. Don’t get caught up with mixed signals. There are all kinds of players out there who will lead you on just with one intention in mind. Learn to distinguish between the guys who are seriously into you and the ones who just want some fun. Keep these above-mentioned tips and traits in mind when you’re trying to decipher whether or not a guy is into you. You can also ask your friends to notice his body language and behaviour towards you if you want a third party opinion on the matter.